A question, that has intrigued thoughts recently though: What are the roles of women and men in our universe? The masculine and feminine, the destroyer and keeper, the yin and yang.
We are both very different, no doubt about it. I have heared often people saying "the best friends in life will probably be from the same sex". And I think it has some truth in it, who are your best friends. In my case its undoubtably men, when we are talking about the people who know me more than anybody else (except myself).
The brutal truth is just that it is very difficult or maybe even impossible to understand women really, for me. We all play the getting together game, but do we ever really understand each other remains yet to be seen, for me at least. It is a very captivative topic, as everything unknown has this aura of mistery and triggers curiosity. Boom, and you land in the bed with a woman just to understand them. Is that bad?
There is a very good friend of mine in Estonia, who in many ways is very different from me, yet we have been really good friends since the age of 12. And one of the reasons I respect him so much, is the fact that he just does not know how to be someone else. How cool is that? I have never seen him in any other role than his true self. Even with women, he always remains the same guy with his often childish (but fucking hilarious) jokes, funny behaviour and thats his charm. The ones who take it, they stay around, the ones who dont, he cares little about. And the best thing is, he is happy how he is.
Of course that is my perception, but I know that many of us are like me. We want to please everybody and if not successful, then there is some oddness inside, as if my task has not been fulfilled. Where the fuck did that "task" came from? :)
About women and men, I agree with my awesome employer and friend - our role is to be our real true selves. And the rest we leave up to the Universe :)
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